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Sexual confidence for men shouldn't be just about performance, though it commonly is linked to penis size and partner pleasure. And to be honest, that association is probably more created by men themselves, than our female partners. But sexual confidence should be about presence, trust, and how a man feels in his own skin. For many men, psychological factors play a larger role in the bedroom than physical ones. The good news? These factors can be improved. With the right mindset, tools, and support, sexual confidence can grow in ways that impact not only the bedroom but relationships and life as a whole. 1. Understanding the Root of Insecurity Many men trace sexual insecurity back to a few core issues: fear of inadequacy, performance anxiety, negative past experiences, or unrealistic expectations set by media. Another key factor is pornography and unrealistic standards of penile size and female pleasure. These thoughts can create a cycle of pressure, shame, and avoidance. A man ma...